SECRETS OF SUCCESFUL MARRIAGES marriages are heaven made.hey do you know that a successful marriage depends on two things. They are finding the right person and also you being the right person. Sometimes we often conclude that some is meant to be ours but later we found out that we are not compatible. We should understand the institution of marriage properly as it goes beyond the coming together of two people. A successful marriage is like a good food with all the necessary ingredients. The ingredients for a successful marriage are love, commitment, understanding, concern and togetherness. if these ingredients are not present then there will always be problems, but if they are present you should have no worry whatsoever. That leads us to the question of what really determines a successful marriage. Sometimes in relationships we may not realize that the walls have started to fall apart and even if we do we may not understand the implications of what is happening. her are signs to show that your marriage is in shambles and if you are experiencing any of the points that are going to be mentioned above, then I think you should address it with caution. . 1.Regular conflicts: when they don’t reach an agreement on something amicably, they shout at each 1other and sometimes the end result could be fight between them. it can also occur when either or both of them have had a bad day in their place of work which can also make them take out their frustration on each other. 2.Not sharing ideas: if you are experiencing this in your marriage and yet not paying attention to them thinking that it just a minor issue then you is wrong because any marriage that experiences this may just be definitely heading towards a divorce. most of the time couples are supposed to discuss everything under the sun. They talk about the good times, the bad times, how they feel over a particular issue and they also discuss the children all in a bid to keep the marriage going. 3. Do you starve your partner of sex just as a reason for punishment? If you do this then expect to get positive result then forgive me because things will only get worse.dont you think that if your partner offends you, you should talk it over with him or her by voicing your opinion. 4.You should not avoid spending time with each other.These are the technique that you can use to save your marriage from collapsing.